My parental family: the JyotiSoft chart answer

What the answer contains

1. The 4th and 10th houses. Mother and father as significators: what the chart says about these people and their influence on you.
2. The Moon and the Sun. The emotional bond with the mother (the Moon) and the figure of the father (the Sun): where the strength is and where the friction.
3. What to let go, what to keep. One concrete piece of advice: which parental pattern to see as “not mine” and which to keep as support.

What it is calculated from

The same calculation as your chart in the bot and the Mini App: sidereal zodiac, Lahiri ayanamsha, whole-sign houses. It uses the 4th house and 10th house with their lords, the Moon and the Sun and what they sit with and what looks at them.

What the answer never does

The answer reads your bond with your parents through your own chart; it does not pass judgement on your parents as people and it does not replace a conversation with them, or with a specialist if the family history is painful. For each parent on their own see Relationship with my mother and Relationship with my father.

If you do not know the birth time

Say so: the answer then states in one sentence that what rests on the houses and the rising sign softens, while the signs of the planets and the dates of the periods hold. You can see first how much depends on the time in the free chart calculator (tick “Time unknown”), and read a chart without a birth time.

Questions next to this one

One parent at a time: Relationship with my mother, Relationship with my father. If the family presses on your relationship: Family interferes in my relationship.

Questions

See also

• 4th house
• 10th house
• Moon (Chandra)
• Sun (Surya)
• Free Kundli (birth chart)

Positions and tables: sidereal zodiac, Lahiri ayanamsha — the same as professional Jyotish astrologers use, and the same calculation as the charts in JyotiSoft. Updated 2026-10-14.